Help! I'm Living in the Fast Lane of Life
If you’re like most, then you’re probably living in the fast lane and looking for an exit!

In my conference last weekend, we talked about having too many duties and responsibilities in life. The sad thing was none of them are bad. They are all good things that keep us busy like going to work, caring for and car-pooling the kids, doing the laundry, serving at church, managing the home, cheering for our kids as they play sports, dance, and music. The list goes on. While these are all good things, nevertheless they are robbing of us our time, energy, rest, and most importantly our playtime. Remember that? The truth is its okay to have some “me” time.

I find more often than not I’m living in the fast lane because I mismanage my priorities. I try to do it all. Somewhere along the way, I adopted the Little Engine’s motto for my life. Do you remember that childhood story? Whenever the Little Engine faced a challenge, he’d say… “I think I can, I think I can.” The same is true for me. Instead of examining closely what I can and cannot do, I took on the Engines motto and responded with, “I think I can. I think I can” to everything and everyone who came down my path.

As a believer, our lives don’t belong to ourselves. They belong to God. We shouldn’t make our own list of priorities where we crave out a slot for God. Instead, we should go to God first and allow Him to set our priorities. Only then will life make sense. Only then will we find true balance. You see, God didn’t call us to be everywhere or to do everything. No, He called us to himself. It’s out of our relationship with God that we find our purpose in life. When we allow Him to give us our marching orders, well then, all the extra activities seem to fall away leaving room for what’s really important.

I encourage you to read Mark chapter 1 verses 21-35. It’s about a day in the life of Jesus. You’ll find in this story that His day wasn’t much different than ours. Christ got up each morning and went work teaching. Throughout his day, he encountered distractions much like we do. Christ knew, by spending time with God, which distractions were just that—distractions that kept Him from accomplishing His tasks, and which were divine appoints from God.

Like Christ, you and I need to learn to identify distractions and get rid of them quickly. We also need to learn how to discern those divine moments and heed them!

Christ was not only good at get rid of distractions and discerning divine appointments. He was also able to handle the pressure and stress placed on him by the demands of those around Him. As women in the home or work place, we know what it feels like to have people depending on us. My question is how does Christ handle all His responsibility; how does He handle all His stress and pressure without blowing it? The secret is found in verse 35.

Today was about Christ secret. Tomorrow, we uncover Paul’s! So stay tuned!

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My Rondevu with Beth Moore



God never ceases to amaze me! Walking with Him is one great adventure after another!

If you love God surprises then you’ll forgive me for postponing my tips for “Living in the Fast Lane.” I promise to get back to those. It was a spirit-filled weekend, and I loved severing along side of the women’s ministry team at Temple Baptist in Texas. But first, I have something amazing to share with you.

This fall and winter I have a packed speaking schedule. Knowing I would need an extra measure of God’s strength, grace, and inspiration to keep going, I asked the Lord to show up and show off in a BIG way—not in my way but in His way. Boy did He ever!

On my way home from Houston to Nashville, God arranged an unexpected rondevu—which is actually spelt, rendezvous and means to “meet you.”

I was sitting at the airport in Houston awaiting my flight, when I looked up and saw a familiar face sitting directly in front of me! Quickly, I pulled out my phone and called my husband.

Ring-ring. “Hello?”

“Hey. Can you hear me?” I whispered.

“Yep. What’s up?” He replied.

“I’m sitting across from a famous person in the airport whose name starts with a B.” I shared with excitement and then hesitated long enough for him to guess who it was.
“Is it Brad Pitt?” He guessed.

“NO!” I replied rolling my eyes. “It’s not Brad Pitt!” “Although,” I said rethinking his presumption, “meeting Brad Pitt wouldn’t be half bad. But the person sitting across from me is Beth Moore!”

“You should say ‘hello.’ He suggested.

“I think I will.” Click.

“Excuse me.” I said as I approached her. “I just called my husband to tell him that there was a famous person sitting across from me at the airport and their name started with a “B.” He guessed it was Brad Pitt, and for a moment I thought… ‘hummm, that would be really awesome.’ But then I told him it was you!” She laughed and asked what my name was—probably to file it under suspicious characters. I took the opportunity to thank her for being obedient in teaching God’s Word. I told how her much I have learned from her, and that I was a Bible teacher, too. Then, I returned to my seat and thanked God for His sweet surprise.

A few minutes later, they announced it was time to begin boarding the plane to Nashville. I got up, gathered my belongings, and headed for the gate. Beth joined me in line and asked about my ministry. I knew our conversation would be short since my seat number was 1-A, but nevertheless, it would be sweet.

Entering the plane, I discovered another surprise. An elderly man sitting in my seat. Immediately, I assumed he was confused about his seating so I called for the stewardess. She explained the situation.

“Oh, that’s my boyfriend.” The stewardess winked. “I wanted him to sit up here with me so I switched his seat. Would you mind taking his?” she asked.

“I don’t mind at all.” I replied. Which is his seat? This is where the “God surprise” comes in. The man’s seat was next to Beth’s! And the rondevu between two sister’s in Christ began—a rondevu only God could have orchestrated.

I explained to Beth that I knew how important is was to study on your way to an event—assuming that’s where she was going—so I promised to read my book and keep my mouth shut.

“Oh, no.” she replied. “I don’t have to prepare for anything on this trip. Usually I do, and I don’t get the privilege of visiting with the person I’m sitting next to on the plane, but not this time.”

So, for a little over two hours we shared, laughed, and I even cried a few times. It was also fun discovering that we knew some of the same people associated with LifeWay and my church.

Beth Moore is a genuine jewel!! She is precious, down to earth, likeable, has a servant heart, hilarious, deep, humble, gracious, kind, gorgeous, and no bigger than a minute. But you knew that already.

After the plane landed, we snapped a few pictures, and then, she graciously introduced me to Travis Cottrell and his beautiful family who were there to pick her up from the airport. What a treat! What a blessing from God!

Just when I was about to tell Beth what an honor it was to meet her, she told me how blessed she was from our meeting! But that’s Beth—right.

I never imagined that asking God for some extra inspiration would come in such a wonderful package such as Beth Moore. But, that’s our God—right!

This experience has taught me not to hesitate to ask God for anything. It’s taught me to dream bigger. Why not, we serve a BIG God! It’s taught me to simply say, “Your will be done” instead of making my own request. Why—because God’s will is always better, brighter, and bigger. When we allow His will to be done in our lives, it surprisingly knocks our socks off every time!

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I'm Living In The Fast Lane and Looking For An Exit!
It’s Friday! Yay! The most wonderful day of the week! I’m getting ready to board a plane to McAllen, TX and spend the weekend with a couple of hundred girlfriends. We’re going to laugh, love, fellowship, and dig into God’s Word to see what He has to say about Living in the Fast Lane of Life!

I wonder. Are you living in the fast lane of life and looking for an exit? Well, stop back by next week. After I return home, I’ll give you the highlights of what we discovered. Right now, all I know is Paul has a secret about finding contentment and rest. We love secrets, don’t we! So you don’t want to miss it!

In the meantime, have a great weekend! Try exiting off the fast lane and get some REST!

Praying for you!

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Be Apart of Somthing Great!
We had a dream. At least we thought it was our dream, when in fact, it was God’s dream all along. Desiring to encourage and strengthen women in the Word long after they have gone home from a conference, we started our daily devotions, “Encouragement for Today.”

We never imagined that our devotions would reach the far corners of the world touching women in China, Australia, Africa, and India, but God did. We never expected to be the number one devotion requested from the largest Christian website on line, but God did. We never anticipated that our written words would be used to comfort, heal, and transform so many broken lives, but God did.

Each day, subscribers respond by sharing how our devotions have helped them with some circumstance, burden, or trial in their lives. One of those stories sticks in my mind.
The devotion was entitled, “The Alternative Lifestyle.” Written in truth and coated with love, God used this devotion to woo one of His own back into a right relationship with Him.

My heart overflowed with joy as I read her response:

“Thank you for this devotion. Since I have been in college, I’ve been living the alternative lifestyle. Your devotion made me realize that I was living a lie. You see, I was raised in church but no one has held me accountable to God’s truths until I read this devotion. I was so overcome with grief and conviction that I knew God was calling me back to Him. So, I packed my bags and left my partner a note. I’m not only returning to the right lifestyle, but I’m returning to God. Thank you.”

Because many partner with Proverbs 31 Ministries, they are helping break the chains that bind and build the kingdom of God. Perhaps they never dreamed that their support would reach the ends of the world, change a college student’s life, encourage a struggling mom, or comfort a widow, but God did.

Today, we’d like to invite you to be a support partner. Support is a great word. We use it more than we know. We wear support shoes, support bras, and support hose. We sit in support groups and we support our troops. At Proverbs 31 Ministries, we need your support. Will you join us? Together we can make a difference for the Kingdom of God!

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Roles and Responsibilites
Ever since Eve said to Adam, “Here dummy eat this.” And Adam replied, “Okay.” Women have been in charge. This is not God’s plan. In fact it’s not God’s plan for anyone to be “in charge” at all. In marriage, each sex has roles and responsibilities given by God. We find these roles in Eph 5:22-28.

“ Wives, submit to your husband’s as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.”

The first thing we notice when reading about the woman’s role is that ugly “s” word—submit. Submission means to “yield.” In other words, as women we are to “yield” to our husband’s leadership. I know that’s a hard role to fulfill, but read on. You might just change your mind!

Secondly, God’s order is revealed as He clearly establishes headship. Christ is the head of the church and man is the head of the woman. Hangth thou in there, woman!

Finally, God thought it was best to repeat His instructions. Again, it’s stated that women should submit to their husbands.

It’s important to note that God never intended man to “master” or “lord” over woman. No one wants to submit to that kind of authority. Man is not the “rule maker” or the “boss” of woman and their home. This is NOT the correct interpretation of these verses. Instead, (and here comes the good part ladies) man is to love his wife as Christ loved the church!

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.”

How did Christ love the church? He died for it!! Even though Christ is Lord and Master of all things great and small, he doesn’t force us to obey. There are times I wished He would make me obey, but He never will. Christ is about relationship. God isn’t the master over Jesus. Jesus is God’s Son. He obeyed His Father out of love. Christ’s desire is that we love and trust Him. If we believe that He has our best interest at heart, we will submit to His leadership. We will call Him Lord. Remember that Christ came to serve the church. Therefore, He is a servant-leader who gave himself up for the church.

Likewise, God calls the husband to be a server-leader. He is to sacrificially place his rights, attitudes, and desires to the side in order to maximize his wife’s abilities (through the washing of the word) and care for her and the family’s needs. He is to love her more than himself.
Now, let me ask you. If your husband considered your needs and the family’s needs before his own; If he sought your thoughts and desires when making decisions for the family while seeking God in prayer, wouldn’t you submit and follow his lead? Of course you would!

My sweet husband considers my thoughts and needs on every decision facing our marriage and our family. Because he does, I can be confident that he will make the right choice for our family. To be honest, I haven’t always agreed with his final decision. Sometimes, my disapproval was foolish. Others times, I was right. However, I must remember that God doesn’t’ hold me accountable but my husband for the choices he makes for our family—right or wrong. Usually, my husband is quick to fix a wrong decision. What good would it do if I nagged him about it? Nothing. On the other hand, respecting him builds confidence and equips him in fulfilling his role as servant-leader.

What’s amazing about this process is as one sex fulfills their role; it causes an automatic response from the other spouse.

Ladies, I know that your greatest desire is for your husband to be the spiritual leader of your home. Honor God and submit to your husband even if he’s not there yet. A man’s greatest need is to be respected. When we honor our husbands, we help them grow in their God-given role.

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A Dangerous Woman of God
God is brave. He’s brave in the fact that He trusts me. God trusts me to go out and speak His truths into the hearts of His people. Honestly, I don’t get it. Why God would use a broken vessel like me—flawed in every way— is beyond my understanding. Yet, I’ve learned much about God through the experience.

First, I’ve learned that God is the real communicator. He’s the teacher who invites me along on His excursions. What an awesome thing it is to hang-out with Jesus—to go where He goes, sleep where He sleeps, and minister where He minister’s. I wonder if what I feel are the same feelings that the Disciplines had as they journeyed with Christ. There’s practical work we do in preparation for the trip, but the entire outing is Gods. It’s as if He invites, “Hey, I’m going to _________ today. Would you like to come?”

Oh, sure, it appears that we are the ones doing the ministering. But the truth is its Christ. Moses understood this. Even though the people saw Moses calling down plagues, parting the sea, and setting the children of Israel free, Moses knew it was God in him doing the actual work. And so do I.

Secondly, I’ve learned if I think I have anything to offer, I’m mistaken. It’s not a question of my giftedness, experiences, or knowledge that qualifies me to be God’s disciple. No. It’s that I have nothing at all to contribute. It’s when I come to the end of myself that Christ is able to use me. When I get out of the way, amazing things happen—things I could have never dreamed, imagined, or accomplished on my own. But that’s God’s plan along.

He wants to make us dangerous women of God. Christ wants full reign so that through us He can do damage for the Father’s kingdom. Finally, I’ve learn that’s called grace. I don’t deserve to be His co-worker, but by the grace of God, I am. It’s a gift of a lifetime! Experiencing God’s grace at work in and through me is what belonging to Him is all about. It’s how we make a difference in our generation.

I came across this below poem written by Lynne Hybels. I’ve adapted her version of “Dear God, please make us Dangerous Women” to read more like a prayer. I hope you’ll make it one of yours.

May we be Dangerous Women of God

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
• May I be a womon who acknowledges the power to change, grow, and be radically alive for God

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I pray deeply and teach others wisely

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I be a healer of wounds and righter of wrongs

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I weep with those who weep and speak for those who cannot speak

Lord, make me Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I cherish children, embrace the elderly, and empower the poor

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I a be strong and gentle leader

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I sing songs of joy and laugh out loud in the face of fear

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I join my tribe as a woman and thank God for my sisters

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I never hesitate to let passion push me, conviction compel me, and righteous anger energize me

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I strike fear into all that is unjust and evil in the world

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I shine like stars in a darkened generation

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!
· May I do good in the name of Jesus and by the power of God, and in that name and by that power, may I change the world

Lord, make me a Dangerous Woman for You!

A-Men

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Season of Change with Rebecca Ingram Powell

I have a very special guest joining me today. Rebecca Ingram Powell is a very dear friend of mine. Not only were we both pregnant with our third child at the same time, but we once attended the same church and met weekly to pray together. Rebecca truly has a heart for God and His Word.

Today, we are discussing her newest book, Season of Change. I know that you will be blessed by Rebecca’s wisdom and insight of the ‘middle’ years.

Rebecca, you talk about forgiveness as your book begins. How is forgiveness an important part of our child’s season of change?

RIP: You know, Micca, as my daughter began to make her way through those years, and that’s been five years ago, now, I was reminded of people, events, and situations that occurred during my own season of change. It brought back a lot of hurts, and I realized that there were some things that, twenty-five years later, I still hadn’t let go of.

Seeing our children walk through some of the same things that we experienced not only brings those memories back to life, it magnifies them. And I think that God uses those often painful memories to help us take an assessment of where we really stand in the forgiveness department. Once we’re sure that we have forgiven others, we can lead the way in helping our kids forgive the hurts that they are going to face from other people. Adolescence is a hurtful time, and usually, the ones who are doing the hurting are the ones who are, themselves, hurting the most.

One thing I really liked about Season of Change were the “toolboxes” that are a part of every chapter. This is where you’re offering some really practical tips for parents. You did include one on forgiveness. Would you share with my readers some of those tips?

RIP: Sure! Forgiving others starts when we realize the truth of Romans 3:23: For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Everyone has sinned, and everyone needs forgiveness. We need to first confess our own sins to God.

Next, we need to open our hearts to the reality of His mercy and grace. No matter what you’ve done, forgiveness is yours for the asking, all because of Jesus! Realizing how much we have been forgiven, through Christ, makes it easier to forgive others who have hurt us.

And I do think we need to remind ourselves by making vocal confession, on a daily basis if necessary. For example, say out loud, “I’m not perfect. Jesus has forgiven me of so much. I have forgiven _________ for what she did to me.” Take a moment to let it sink in! You’re forgiven! You can forgive, too!

Rebecca, what are some of the ways we can help our daughters with what’s becoming known now as “girl politics”?

RIP: There are three things that moms can do to help:

(1) Get involved. When moms have an open network that seeks everyone’s participation, girls often follow suit. If a girl is bullying or being bullied--online or in person--strong, parental involvement can be essential for changing things.

(2) Give her perspective. The “in” and “out” of the crowd is a revolving door. What seems like life or death drama today will often be forgotten by next week.

(3) Graciously influence. A Christian mom’s influence can reach far beyond her family. Open your home to your daughter’s friends, and encourage her to be a peacemaker when “catfights” occur.

Thanks for opening your home on the web to me, Micca!

Rebecca, thanks for dropping by! Rebecca’s book, Season of Change: Parenting Your Middle Schooler with Passion and Purpose, is available from Proverbs 31 Ministries! Order your copy today!

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Do-Over
Have you ever called for a “do-over?” Kids do it all the time. If they don’t like the way they hit the ball, rolled the dice, or jumped the hill on their bike, they call for a “do-over.” In the game of golf, a “do-over” is called a Mulligan. My husband taught me that!

I’ve called for a “do-over” many times in my life. Sometimes it’s been the result of a mistake while other times it’s been because I’ve fallen into the trap of sin. Yesterday, I needed a “do-over” because of a big ole goof!

I hate to admit it but sometimes I rush to meet my devotional deadline. As a result, mistakes are made. Nevertheless, I have the editing process to back me up. Their job is to read through each devotion with a fine tooth editorial comb in order to correct any mistakes made. Unfortunately, yesterday’s devotion was pushed ahead in the process to fill a spot where another devotion had been removed.

Over 200,000 subscribers were sent a devotion full of mistakes!

Can anyone scream “DO-OVER!”

Proverbs 31 Ministries strives for excellence in all we do especially the handling of the Word of God. So when the devotion went out, I was horrified! Concerned about our readers, we quickly posted the correct verses on our daily blog page. I did so as well on mine. But others will be confused as they search the Bible for the book David! Hello!? There is no gospel according to David! And I’m not trying to rewrite the scriptures. God has never asked for my advice and He sure didn’t start yesterday!

To make me feel better, my husband kept repeating the same thing over and over. “You’re only human.” He was right.

God knows we are human, too. He understands our limitations. Rushing to meet a deadline exposed both my humanness and my limitations. The cool thing is God invented “do-over’s.” Not some tunic wearing kid tossing rocks into a circle during the ancient years. Nope. It was God. He is a God of second chances…and third…and forth…and so on.

The bible says, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).

I don’t think a few mistakes in a devotional is sin. I make them all the time on my blog. I consider blogging like journaling. I just write. I don’t go back and correct my misspelled or words. So, sorry to all of you who read with red pens in hand. I do believe, however, that I should apologize—which I have—and use this opportunity as a teaching lesson. If my devotions are not ready to turn in—don’t!

What about when there is sin in our lives. Perhaps we’ve hurt a loved one in some way. Well, God offers you a “do-over.” You can confess your sin to Him and He will cleanse you and give you a fresh start. We also get a fresh start and a second chance when we confess our wrong-doings to others and ask for their forgiveness.

What about you. Do you need a “do-over” today? Perhaps you can share it with us. You’ll be amazed at what a second chance to make things right can do for you and others.

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Help! My Child's A Middle Schooler
Happy Monday Ya’ll! Thanks for stopping by my blog today. I believe you’re going to be glad you did. I have some exciting news for those who are parents of teenagers, grandparents of teenagers, neighbors of teenagers, for those who teach teenagers, and basically anyone who finds themselves mixed up in the crazy world of a teenager.

If this is you, then you know how challenging this time of life can be for both parent and teen. Before you find yourself at wits-end, drop by my blog on Wednesday, September 17th as I interview my good friend, Rebecca Powell.

Rebecca is an author and speaker whose passion is training young people to know God and to live a life of passion, purity, and purpose. I invite you to join us as we’ll discuss her new book, Season of Change: Parenting Your Middle Schooler with Passion and Purpose.

In her interview, Rebecca will share ways that parents can help their daughters with the term “girl-politics.” (If you don’t know what that term means, you’ll difinetly want to check back on Wednesday!) Rebecca will also offer practical tips that can help us embrace all the changes that occur during the teen years, and she’ll cover a topic that impacts every age…forgiveness. You will not want to miss it! Click on the links today for a sneak preview!

CORRECTION!

There have been some mistakes found in the “Power verse” section of today’s devotion. Unfortunately, this devotion was pushed ahead in publishing and therefore failed to go through the entire editing process. This proves we are human at Proverbs 31 Ministries and need your grace, grace, grace. We apologize for any confusion the wrong verse may have caused and we appreciate your patience as we correct them.

Daniel 7:14, “He was given authority, glory and sovereign power; all peoples, nations and men of every language worshiped him. His dominion is an everlasting dominion that will not pass away, and his kingdom is one that will never be destroyed.” (NIV)

Philippians 4: 6-7, ““Be careful for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” (KJV)

Matthew 11:27a, “All things have been hand over to Me by My Father”

Have a blessed day in Christ our Lord!

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9-11 Changed Me
Boy have I been busy. The past three days I’ve been in the mountains at Ridgecrest. It was my pleasure to speak to the trustee’s wives of LifeWay. They are a great group of women who love the Lord and serve Him faithfully. All I know is I came to bless, but I got the blessing!

LifeWay and their staff truly have a heart for spreading the gospel and making Christ known through all generations. One thing is clear about this bunch. As Believers in this world, we should always be about the cause of Christ. Can I get an “A-men!”

Since today is 9-11, I’m also reminded that we should be about another cause—the cause of our country. I’m so thankful and proud of those who have given their lives for our country and for those who serve her today. I’m also saddened today as I think about those who lost loved ones when the twin towers were struck by terrorists. It’s my prayer that the God of all comfort would ease their pain by His abiding presence. I also pray that we would not forget this day. It was a day that changed us forever. At least it changed me.

I find that I’m more patriotic than I was before 9-11. Tears fill my eyes every time I hear our National Anthem played or sung. As I stand with one hand over my heart and my eyes gazing respectfully at our country’s flag, I say a prayer. “May She forever wave over a land that is free and protected by the merciful hand of God.”

I also have a new found love for my country. Perhaps it was there all along and I just took it for granted. Isn’t that what happens when tragedy strikes? It causes us to realize just how important something is or how much someone meant to us. For that I’m grateful. As Americans we should be proud of our country—to the point it brings us to tears.

I’m curious. Do you remember where you were on 9-ll when you first heard about the devastating news? Do you recall how it made you feel? Has it changed you? If so, how?

“Blessed is the Nation whose God is the Lord.” PS 33:12

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Dying To Live
Human beings are the only species who can anticipate their death. We know that one day we will have to face death—an appointment we can’t put off. We may not know when it’s coming, but we know death is certain. My dog doesn’t foresee her death. Neither do the birds that nest in my trees or the deer that come down from the hill at night to eat the pears from my pear tree. Even the houseplants are unaware of their ending—which in my house is sooner than later. Only humans are aware of death.

I think it was a country music singer who once said, “It’s not that I fear dying. I just don’t want to be there when it happens.” Those are my thoughts exactly. However, most avoid the subject of death all together. Even though we’ll spend more time on the other side of the grave, we give more thought to planning a vacation than we do death. Why not—living is more fun! The ironic thing is we are not truly prepared to live until we are truly prepared to die.

I experienced this truth in my own life. Like many, I gave my heart to Jesus at a young age. My parents were talking “divorce” which meant that all attention was on them and their problems. My siblings and I began to feel insecure and uncared for. At the time, however, we were still attending church. Encouraged by our pastor, our family joined other church members and together attended a James Robison crusade in our home town. This was a turning point in my life.

Even though I was very young, James Robison held my attention as he spoke about a Savoir who loved me so much that He died for me. This Jesus wanted to be my friend; my helper; my comforter, and best of all—He would never leave me. His words captivated my heart and mind. It felt as if God reached down from heaven and held my small little face in the palm of His hands and spoke directly to me.

When Robison invited us to make Christ our Lord and Savior, I jumped up from me seat and headed toward the stage. My mom called out to me. “Micca, wait!” Looking over my shoulder at my mother, the gap between us was quickly filled by a sea of people. We were separated. Usually this would have frightened me, but I wasn’t afraid. I was drawn forward to the stage. I had to get to Jesus. And that’s what I did.

My mom eventually caught up with me and sat by my side as an elderly man led me to receive Christ. I felt the love God being poured into my heart so much so that I cried until strings of snot hung to my chin. It wasn’t pretty, but I didn’t care. I had Jesus!

The years went by and I experienced more troubles and heartaches in my life. While most of the time I clung to Jesus and His Word, I also allowed anger along with other accompanying emotions to enter my heart. Before long, I lost my passion for God. I grew stale in my faith all the while wondering where my peace and joy went. I had no idea that I had pushed them out and replaced those good emotions with bad ones.

I was in my early thirty’s when I couldn’t stand it any longer. I knew there was more for the life of a believer and I was missing out. Desperate, I cried out to God asking Him to change me; to restore my joy and free me from my anger and pain. Funny, God always answers those kinds of prayers.

God began showing me where my troubled was. I had taken back my rights instead of laying them at the feet of Jesus like I did when I was young. I had let my rooted bitterness come between me and my Jesus. Broken, I fell to my knees in my bedroom and confessed my sin. I died to self and gave up my anger. With Paul’s words, I committed myself anew. “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” (Gal 2:20.) I got up from my confession brand new and alive! Every day since, I confess to God that I’m dead so that I can truly live as He intends.

It’s so worth it! Dying to self allows Christ to live His life through mine. What an exchange! I die to my selfishness, my inabilities to love and serve my family, my meanness, my rights, my lack of faith, my pride and so on. In exchange, Christ gives me His faith, His patience so I can parent my children in the afternoon, His love and compassion for others, His humility, His joy, His peace, His self-control, His life.

What about you? Are you prepared to die? It starts by placing your eternity in the hands of God so you can begin to really live.

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A Faith Like Daniel's
If you’ve popped over after reading today’s devotion, welcome! Let’s have bible study today. Below you’ll find Daniel’s story and some study questions. I hope they will challenge and inspire your faith in the midst of troubled times.

I will not answer the questions. Instead, I’d love to learn from you. Leave your answer, question, or comment to one or more of the questions on my blog. It will be fascinating what we’ll learn from each other! That is what makes study groups so cool…everyone’s a teacher and everyone’s a student!

Daniel 1:3 Then the king ordered Ashpenaz, chief of his court officials, to bring in some of the Israelites from the royal family and the nobility-- 4 young men without any physical defect, handsome, showing aptitude for every kind of learning, well informed, quick to understand, and qualified to serve in the king's palace. He was to teach them the language and literature of the Babylonians. 5 The king assigned them a daily amount of food and wine from the king's table. They were to be trained for three years, and after that they were to enter the king's service. 6 Among these were some from Judah: Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah. 7 The chief official gave them new names: to Daniel, the name Belteshazzar; to Hananiah, Shadrach; to Mishael, Meshach; and to Azariah, Abednego. 8 But Daniel resolved not to defile himself with the royal food and wine, and he asked the chief official for permission not to defile himself this way. 9 Now God had caused the official to show favor and sympathy to Daniel, 10 but the official told Daniel, "I am afraid of my lord the king, who has assigned your food and drink. Why should he see you looking worse than the other young men your age? The king would then have my head because of you." 11 Daniel then said to the guard whom the chief official had appointed over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah, 12 "Please test your servants for ten days: Give us nothing but vegetables to eat and water to drink. 13 Then compare our appearance with that of the young men who eat the royal food, and treat your servants in accordance with what you see." 14 So he agreed to this and tested them for ten days. 15 At the end of the ten days they looked healthier and better nourished than any of the young men who ate the royal food. 16 So the guard took away their choice food and the wine they were to drink and gave them vegetables instead. 17 To these four young men God gave knowledge and understanding of all kinds of literature and learning. And Daniel could understand visions and dreams of all kinds. 18 At the end of the time set by the king to bring them in, the chief official presented them to Nebuchadnezzar. 19 The king talked with them, and he found none equal to Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah; so they entered the king's service. 20 In every matter of wisdom and understanding about which the king questioned them, he found them ten times better than all the magicians and enchanters in his whole kingdom. 21 And Daniel remained there until the first year of King Cyrus.

1.) Daniel’s faithfulness and life of prayer has been a challenge to Christian's in the midst of trails in ages. Do you think Daniel was special in some way or was he just like me and you? Explain your answer.

2.) Though Daniel found himself in a foreign culture which was hostile to his faith, he determined not to lower the standard of his faith. In our culture today, do believers lower their faith or stand firm like Daniel? Explain.

3.) Daniel obeyed God in Babylon just as he did in Judah. Are there areas in your personal life that you compromise? Why do you think obedience across the board is so difficult? Or why is it easier to obey God in one situation but not the other?

4.) God honors those who honor Him. “In all matter of wisdom and understanding, Daniel and his friends were found ten times better than all the magicians and astrologers.” Have you gained any benefits from honoring God with your life? What are they? What have you lost or may have lost by not remaining faithful?

5.) Though king Nebuchadnezzr had many counselors, Daniel was unique in that he had a personal relationship with God. God wanted to speak to the king and He did so by positioning Daniel in his courts. When the king had a dream, Daniel was there to explain them. Do you think God places Christian counselors before our leaders of today? Why or why not. Does God have you positioned to speak truth and wisdom to an unbelieving neighbor, friend, or co-worker?

Ask God today to give you the faith of Daniel in times of trouble and the strength to obey when everyone else is worshiping idols. He just may have a planned position for you that could change a life.

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